bee happy

April 24, 2013 in journaling, my kids

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Yes.

I’m 34 weeks pregnant. With my fifth baby, so that means that things (many things) have shifted and I am uncomfortable. I’m rocking the pregnant waddle (at least that’s what I tell myself as I shuffle awkwardly through Target and in and out of preschool. Thank heavens Bailey and Natalie can just open the minivan doors and hop out at their school). My ankles are gone and my toes look more like lil smokies every day. Rolling over in bed is a major undertaking, sleep is becoming more elusive, and have I mentioned that it’s hooooooooot already where I live? 90 degrees hot.

And, you know, this baby girl-to-be of mine? She doesn’t move all the time. As in, not at every second of every day, so I  find myself getting anxious and scared and nervous until a comforting twitch comes along and I relax again for a few minutes.

My poor family has been bearing the brunt of my uncomfortable-ness and my freaking-out-ness and I am really not that pleasant a person to be around right now. (I’m sorry, honey. I really am.) So this little chalkboard art by my brilliant eight-year-old was just the reminder I needed today as I shlepped my fifth load of laundry to the washer.

Bee happy.

It’s a choice, after all, to be happy or not. To be agitated, to lose my patience, to be frustrated, to sweat the small stuff. My choice to find joy, to be grateful, to cherish the little things, to be okay with not knowing how this whole pregnant thing is going to turn out.

For me, it all comes down to faith and choice. Faith that this baby girl will come home with me, that I’ll get to raise her with her sisters. That she will open her eyes and move and cry and poop and eat and sleep and just be here, with me and mine. Faith that our Patrick’s loss was a fluke, a rare lightening strike that will not happen again. Faith that God’s plan for my family, though it included our great sorrow, also holds great joy in our future.

And my choice, to accept the sorrow of the past but not let it turn to bitterness. (This is hard.) To accept the discomfort of now and not let it spoil my temperament or the way I treat those I love the most. To choose happiness and joy, even in the face of uncertainty and nervousness.

Bee happy. Wise words from my eldest. Learning these lessons from my kids is truly the best part of motherhood. What have your kids taught you lately?

photo tip tuesday–look for catchlights

February 27, 2013 in my kids, photography tips, visalia portraits

When I first started learning how to take better pictures, I learned one thing that has made a huge, huge difference in my portraits–watch for catchlights in your subject’s eyes!

photo tip tuesday from impressions by jani - look for catchlights

See those little sparkles in this cutie’s eyes? Those are catchlights, and they bring life and so much expression into a portrait.

Now this photo is a perfectly fine shot of my daughter, taken on her third birthday. Cute expression, cute location, nice exposure.

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Her eyes, though, don’t have any depth, any light in them. They are kind of black holes. The light was behind her, and I didn’t take my reflector with me to bounce the light back into her eyes. For great catchlights, I should have placed her in an area of full shade, with her facing toward the light.

Like this!

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This works indoors, too, just face your child toward a window. Consider these two photos.

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On the left, she’s sitting up on a beanbag facing a window, and on the right she is lying directly below a window. Like this.

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That sparkle in the eye really makes the shot.

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look for catchlights - impressions by jani photo tip tuesday

photo tip tuesday - look for catchlights

For a while after I discovered catchlights, I watched for them everywhere. Films, TV shows, magazine photos, every website I visited. I’m sure I also made quite a few people uncomfortable, staring into their eyes watching the light in them dance around while we were having a conversation–awkward! Thankfully I’ve got the catchlight thing figured out at this point. Doesn’t mean I’m not completely awkward during a conversation, but I’ve moved on a bit!

So try out this tip and show me your results!

photo tip tuesday–get on your subject’s level

February 20, 2013 in journaling, my kids, photography tips

impressions by jani photo tip_get on your subjects levelYesterday I was deep in long-weekend-recovery mode. You know, twenty loads of laundry, picking up every toy in the house, doing my grocery shopping for the rest of the month, that kind of thing. So this week’s photo tip is a bit late, but our quick day trip to the coast on Monday gives me the perfect images to share. I’ll finish off my series on exposure (see parts 1 and 2 for info) next week—this is more of a bonus tip in the middle.

I’ve talked about this idea before in my long post on composition over on my old photography blog, but it bears repeating—when photographing something, get down on the subject’s level. It takes this

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which is a perfectly fine photo, to this.

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In the first shot, I captured the kids, the sand, and the water, but when I crouched down for the second shot, I also included the vastness of the ocean and sky behind my cute niece. It really opens up a photograph to get down on your subject’s level.

Same deal with these two shots. Cute girls, and you can definitely tell they’re at the beach. But with the second, I love the view of the wave in the distance moving toward my crazy daughter (it was only about 55 degrees that day!).

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Now, this pregnant momma is not a huge fan of crouching down, but especially when you’re photographing smaller children, babies, or even taking interior shots of a tabletop or other low-level items, getting down at your subject’s level will make a huge difference in your images.

And, because this is my blog and I can share as many fun photos as I want, here are  few more from our quick beach trip.

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I’d love to see your results when you practice getting on your subject’s level!

personalize a basic bulletin board {fabric & ribbon}

February 6, 2013 in crafting, DIY, my kids, Nat and Macie's room

It’s Wednesday! I’m halfway through a week of sick kids, sick husband, and sick me. Cold and flu season is almost over, right? Right? I think my oldest keeps bringing home a slightly new virus mutation each week, then it runs through each family member just in time for the new strain the next week. I know I’m not the only one with this going on, though–I see chapped, red noses all over town. Poor kiddos.

So today I’m sharing a quick project I did to complete the wall in my younger daughters’ room where I hung their repurposed shutter coat hanger. Remember those extra Command Strip tabs in a few of the photos? They are for these!

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My little ladies like to collect their things and keep their creations, but my fridge is only so big. So having nice, large bulletin boards in their room for each of them gives them a space to display their proudest accomplishments and have a bit of say in their decorating. Littlest girl even snagged a Christmas card from a friend’s family to put on her board, since their youngest is one of her besties. Middle girl has her soccer and swimming buttons, her class photo from kindergarten, and a few swimming ribbons she earned last summer proudly displayed on hers. (I need to pick up a few more packs of push pins so she can spread her treasures out a bit.)

These bulletin boards are so, so simple to customize. I started with two bulletin boards my sister-in-law passed on to us a few summers back–they were basic brown cork boards like this or this, depending on the size you want.  Ours are just under 2×3′ in size, and as you can see there is plenty of space to hang many projects and notes. For this size, you’ll also need a yard of fabric per bulletin board, a hot glue gun, and coordinating ribbon or trim.

I recovered these bulletin boards about a year or so ago with different fabric and covered the frames with scraps and ribbon, to this result.

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I had also added a fabric-covered monogram for each girl, but after a year+ of each board falling off the wall repeatedly because I didn’t secure them very well, they looked a little worse for the wear.

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The old fabric also did not work as well in the new color scheme I’m going for, so starting fresh was the best way to go. Since I’d simply hot-glued the first type of fabric on, I simply yanked everything off and got back to this point.

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At that point, I realized that I’d painted the frames with the wall paint. Ooops, not what I wanted now. So I used some leftover white paint from my kitchen cabinets and freshened them up a bit. Then I measured the dimensions of the cork surface and cut my fabric to fit exactly in that space. Working from one corner all the way around, I hot glued the edges of the fabric right over the cork board. Then I repeated this step to cover the raw edges with the green grosgrain I selected to complement the floral.

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To finish off the bulletin boards and add a bit more depth, I also hot glued the same green ribbon around the perimeter of each bulletin board.

fabric and ribbon bulletin board impressions by jani

I have plans to use a similar treatment elsewhere in the room to tie the bed over to the bulletin board wall.

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Simple and easy to customize for any decor style, this is a fairly quick, 1-2 hour project. My girls love their boards and I love keeping their things in their room. We’re all happy, and with the command strips on the back, these bulletin boards are finally staying up. Whew.

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